Embracing the Opportunity, Part 2 of Our House Adventure

Now that we had a house to pay off, the pressure mounted. We had to finish fixing up the house we lived in and get it on the market. We had already remodeled the bathroom and painted almost everything, but the outside was still a wreck.

We worked for a month and in the end our house had gone from this:

To this:

We put it on the market with high hopes of selling quickly. Having two houses was a financial challenge we didn’t want to endure for long. In the past three years, we had been eliminating bills and now we had three credit cards maxed out!

In the weeks that followed, we managed to get our new house gutted, but making money took priority over remodeling. I tried to wait patiently for the offer that would ease the pressure, but I bothered our Realtor and paced way too much to call my trying a success. It took six weeks for an offer come, but that was okay. We would be out of debt again with money to spare!

The problem was that our new house still wasn’t inhabitable. We weren’t sure what to do. If we moved into the construction site it would only slow down progress, but we had to sleep somewhere.

The week of closing we found out that a neighbor had an old, camp trailer for sale. It was soon parked in the driveway and I began cleaning and moving our clothes into it. A friend stopped by and teased,

“Oh, I bet you’ll only have to live in that trailer for a year and a half.”

I didn’t think he was very funny, but I laughed anyway. I knew I had to keep my sense of humor in this transition. The situation was far from ideal, but it would be worth it.

Closing finally came and a train of trucks, cars, and a trailer pulled out of town. My dad was shocked that I was so calm when he left the rubble and mess of my new home. Mom assured him,

“She likes it out here.”

And I do. Even though it’s been cold and messy and annoying living in a construction zone, I like it.

When I shivered in the trailer at night, I told myself that it could’ve been worse.

When my husband and I moved inside the house to share a room with my daughters, I considered the blessing of owning our own home.

When I get frustrated because my kitchen is gutted and ugly, I just remember that this was my choice. I begged my husband to get me this house. I wanted the possibilities and the opportunities.

The opportunity to overcome the obstacles.
The opportunity to invest in my family.
The opportunity to make a profit from doing what I enjoy, taking a cast off, ugly place and making it beautiful.

I can’t wait to see the end result!

 


Dave Ramsey Would Not Approve

“You should just look at houses. I bet you would find something that would make you want to move.”

“Oh, I don’t know. We can’t get a mortgage, because we just started a business. Besides, if I sell my house, where will we live?”

My house was small, but I was content. However, browsing real estate ads is something I do for fun, so maybe my friend was onto something. When I saw a house on 2 acres listed for only $18,000, I begged Dylan to take me out to see it.

The house was scary, but the possibilities excited me. A view of the mountains…Two acres of land…Twice the amount of room in the house…I freaked out.

“Dylan, please buy me this house!!!”

We had been slowly getting out of debt. Our home was paid for, and now I was dreaming another one.

When I found out this cheap house had sold for four times the asking price just a few years ago, I wanted it even more. Could we figure out a way to jump on this opportunity? We had more than enough equity in our current home to cover this new place, but we didn’t have time to wait for it to sell.

I remembered the high credit limit on one of our credit cards. That wasn’t enough, but pawing through the bill drawer I pulled out as many statements as I could find. I had canceled a lot of credit cards over the years. How many did I have left?

And what kind of crazy thing were we even thinking? Buying a HOUSE on credit cards!? I am sure Dave Ramsey would not approve.

It was risky, but we decided it was worth it. We put in an offer and began the process of getting money from our credit cards to pay for a HOUSE! It worked! The whole house needed to be gutted, but we would have time to fix it up while we waited for our other house to sell. Or so we thought…

(to be continued)

 


On Teaching Another One

A little boy bursts through the door. He’s here. Then he’s there. Examining, exploring, trying to figure things out.

I try to get him to sit, to focus, but I need to pull him gently.

photo credit: nattu

We’ve talked about creating a peaceful home, a place of learning.

He wants to be here.

He wants to play.

He wants to be loved. {Don’t we all?}

The challenge is before me and I willingly accept the burden, because the burden is a soul. This soul peers through big, brown eyes and walks with stinky feet. It’s an honor to teach him. To bring him into our family. To show him how a mother treats a son.

I review phonograms with him and let him jump to the answers. I call him in to worship and he requests “Our God is an Awesome God.”

And then in the quiet of the evening, I pray for this little boy as tears stream down my face. I’m burdened, and I’m in love.

And love is the foundation of everything I want to teach.

 


Doing Too Much

She gave me a devotional, Meditations for Women Who Do Too Much. It was just a token of love and concern, but my reply was defensive.

I don’t think I do too much. I don’t do enough.

The Bath

The Bath, Mary Cassatt

After the commotion of the evening calmed, I read a few of the meditations searching to see if my offense was truth I needed to face. I found words about addiction and disease. I found admonishments to take time for myself. I found reminders that we have choices in this life. And perhaps that is the key.

I realize that I have choices. Our family is starting a business, and I’m helping to start a school. I have purposefully made these choices. I am not overwhelmed and overtaken because of the seeming chaos around me.

Peace is first internal. I find it in quiet prayers throughout the day. I find it by attempting to match my actions to reality. The children running around here are more important than the door that might fall off its hinges from swinging. Serving all the souls who enter my home is a privilege.

Slipping into bed, I asked my beloved if he thinks I am a workaholic like the book suggested. He worries that I do too much, too. His reply:

No, you just have so much faith. That is why you are busy.

Faith. Really? If those words from the one who knows me best here on earth are true, then my busyness is not some compelling drive for acceptance. It is not my doing at all. If those words are true, my choices simply start with being willing to open my heart, because faith is a gift.

For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. (Ephesians 2:8-9)


Easter Is Coming! Activity List

In preparation for Easter, I wanted to work through some devotions similar to what we did during Advent. I poked around the internet a bit, but when April mentioned making ornaments I pressed.

A Woman and Child in a Sunlit Interior, 1889

She shared the pictures of her handmade ornaments and told me about the devotion book she is using, The Lenten Tree.

I decided to get the book even though we aren’t making any ornaments this year. {Who says you have to make a Lenten tree even if you’re reading The Lenten Tree? The devotions are very nice all by themselves.}

With our new devotions, I decided to mirror Miiko Gibson’s free ebook, Lent Activities for the Family, and create a list of things to do during the upcoming days. A few of these ideas are from her list, but my children came up with their own ideas, too.

  1. Make sugar cookies
  2. Decorate eggs
  3. Hunt eggs
  4. Make hot cross buns
  5. Attend Passover
  6. Gather and enjoy Easter-related books
  7. Plant daffodils
  8. Pray
  9. Make cards to share with friends
  10. Clean our house
  11. Help a friend clean
  12. Go swimming
  13. Go on a nature hike
  14. Listen to the Twelve Voices of Easter
  15. Listen to Handel’s Messiah
  16. Make Easter story cookies
  17. Decorate bird houses
  18. Take flowers to a friend
  19. Serve at the church
  20. Weed garden beds

As we celebrate spring and resurrection, we will reflect on the blessings we receive and take some time to make a memory or two.

How do you celebrate this season?

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