Help! I’m Considering Homeschool

I’m thinking about homeschooling. My husband and family keep talking me out of it. I never considered the possibility before, but since putting my daughter in preschool she’s become angry. I don’t even know how to begin homeschooling. Your views would be helpful. ~J.K. in FL

Dear J.K.,

First of all, I want to encourage you. Homeschooling isn’t as scary as it sounds. So many messages in our culture come against the idea, but, especially in the early years, homeschooling is pretty simple. I didn’t say it’s easy, but it is simple.

Your child needs to learn to read.

Because homeschooling is very centered on family, I would not try to do it if my husband wasn’t in unity. Is he open to trying it? What are his concerns? As you explore this option, continue praying and communicating about it.

Another thing to consider is your state’s homeschooling laws. It looks like you have more restrictions than I do in Idaho. However, you don’t have to start any formal education until your child is 6. You may have a year before state requirements come into effect, and by then you will have found support.

Honestly, I think homeschooling during the beginning years is more crucial than later. It is a time of laying foundations.

While our children are young, we need to teach them, not their peers. Then when they are older and capable of discerning good from evil, they have a foundation to stand on.

I hope this helps. You have already been teaching your child. And no matter where she attends school, you are still her most important teacher.

Peace to you,
Renae

What would you have said?

The Faith It Takes to Homeschool

For the first time, I wasn’t overwhelmed by the plethora of choices at the homeschool convention. A few art supplies were gathered as gifts to take home to my children, but no curriculum grabbed me. Our shelves at home contained more than enough.

After six years of homeschooling, I felt settled. I finally realized there was no perfect curriculum. I understood there was no system to replace character.

The view from my new vista looked so promising. My faith was stronger than in those first faltering days of kindergarten crying. My children were learning and growing. Homeschool was working.

Then a new season crashed in on us. A season of selling our house and moving across the country….

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Homeschool Is Messy

My husband leaves for work early in the morning, but the rest of us are here all day, every day. Before breakfast, toys are dragged into the living room. I sling bowls onto the table and notice the library basket being emptied. The rug is covered with books as I pull out the cereal.

Breakfast explodes all over the table and my coffee has disappeared in plain sight.

Balancing messes and lessons is a daily struggle.

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Small House Homeschooling

Moving back to Idaho opened the outdoors to us, but it cut our living space indoors almost in half. We were perfectly comfortable learning and living in just over 1500 sq. ft. Now we have 888.

It’s not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. It has taken some getting used to though. Here is what I do to ease the squeeze.

1. Get rid of everything I don’t use regularly

(or replace it with something smaller)

Before we moved, all the stuff stored in the garage to fix someday was immediately purged. The television and entertainment center were given away. We’ve never had cable, so the computer suffices to watch movies.

I have a going out/give away pile that grows almost daily.

2. Keep toys small and few

My son is content with one huge box of Lego that slides under his bed.

My girls each have a shoe-box sized drawer to store all their little stuff: tea sets, dolls, and ponies.

One large wicker trunk holds all dress up clothes and a basket corrals their stuffed animals.

3. Hang up as much as I can

I hung hooks by every door in every room.

Pegs in the girls’ room hold their coats and bags. My son hangs up his music bag and sweatshirts. I thought of running hooks all the way down the hallway, but I dream of shallow bookshelves there instead.

The kitchen received the same treatment. A pan rack created out of a metal shelf and s-hooks freed up a cupboard. Cup hooks screwed into the edge of the kitchen counter create a place for towels and pot holders.

Inspired by this post, How to have open shelving in your kitchen without daily staging, I hung two shelves to display my dishes and freed yet another cupboard for food.

The brackets aren’t pretty, but they are what I had.

4. Decorate with creative containers (and books)

There isn’t room for lots of stuff to set about prettily, so I consider storage containers decorations.

• Jars showcase the rice and pasta.
• Small wooden boxes are stacked on a shelf.
• Suitcases work well as storage.
• Even my pottery usually has something inside.

My coat rack wouldn’t fit behind my front door, so I put it in the bathroom.
By hanging a bag on one of the hooks, I have a container for my make-up bag, brushes, and hair accessories.

5. Solve the issue of NO closets

I”m pretty sure the previous owners used one of the small rooms as a large closet. That won’t work for us, so I found some closet shelving on clearance and pounded it into wall to hang our clothes.

It’s not exactly pretty, but it is practical. And it creates a shelf for a bit more storage.

Wardrobes would be nice, but they might make our small rooms seem even smaller. The doors would have to slide or else hit the bed. For now, I’m calling the issue resolved.

6. Try to control clutter where it happens

A beat-up wicker laundry basket sets inside the front door to collect shoes.

My girls always have something creative happening, so baskets next to the craft table trap their art supplies. The largest basket I have stores their artwork.

I’m still working on corralling the laundry, but when we get the bathroom remodeled that will help. We’ll put in a closet for a laundry hamper. (I can’t wait! I’ll have a closet, a real closet!)

7. Embrace the process

Even though our house is still ugly on the outside, the inside is taking shape. It feels like home because we have the things we use and enjoy surrounding us.

Perhaps, these walls help shape us from the inside out, too. We have so many opportunities each day to prefer one another. We stumble over each other’s messes, wait in line to use the bathroom, and work together to improve what we’ve been given. Our closeness clarifies the importance of being family.

Works for Me Wednesday: Washable Markers

Small white boards are nice for practicing letters and drawing pictures. They are a sort of modern slate saving me quite a bit of paper.

The only problem was letting my little ones use dry erase markers, because no matter how hard I tried to supervise they would draw elsewhere.

I looked for alternatives and saw something called wet erase markers. Because that sounded very similar to the washable markers we already own, I pulled out the Crayola.

Washable markers work great! I just keep a wet rag close. The rag gets very colorful, but it washes right out.

I’ve also used washable markers on the outside of my refrigerator. It creates a large white board in a very convenient spot. I am a bit nervous about turning my new refrigerator rainbow colors, but so far I haven’t had any issues. I just clean it off immediately after lessons.

Washable markers work for me!

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